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As the baby boomer bubble pushes into its eighties, we are driving into a demographic wall.

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[–] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 9 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

You two should be discussing this now.

She will need to sell her house and car and a chunk of her belongings and move in with you or on the same street or apartments or whatever. She needs to decide what to sell and what to give to whom, now while she still has her faculties and mobility.

When you get old, you're doing good until you aren't and then you never are again. You two should have a plan that you can just execute.

[–] jade52@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Thanks for the advice. Unfortunately our relationship isn't great and we are pretty estranged. My husband and I live in a 2 bedroom condo with one bathroom, small even for just us two and our cats. So she can't move in with us. My sister is no contact with her. So yeah. The situation is messy.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago

You're not responsible for your mother.

[–] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Oh, well in that case let her figure it out. My parents kicked me out at 18, and at this point I wouldn't talk to them if they attempted to reach out. I worry that they might, confronting death or needing physical daily assistance. I hope for their sake that they have whatever they need to do, planned out already.