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I find that saying something like, "My ears seem to be moving faster than my brain today. Can we try this another time?" is a good way to indicate you're interested in learning what they're saying while acknowledging you're having a hard time comprehending it at that moment.
Most people understand that our brains shut off sometimes; "the lights are on, but nobody's home." Most people also know good and well when someone doesn't understand something. Acknowledging these human traits may be uncomfortable, but it's better than trying to lie to someone who knows better.
Also auditory processing disorder
I have to explain this one a lot when I go, "What? Oh, [answers question]" lol
I'd like to be able to turn on closed captioning for in-person conversations.
yes. half the time I have no idea what my manager is saying to me. she will mumbling to herself and then add me to her conversation.
That's better. I usually go with, "I just pooped my pants, can we circle back?"