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[–] gastroglizzy@piefed.social 35 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I find that saying something like, "My ears seem to be moving faster than my brain today. Can we try this another time?" is a good way to indicate you're interested in learning what they're saying while acknowledging you're having a hard time comprehending it at that moment.

Most people understand that our brains shut off sometimes; "the lights are on, but nobody's home." Most people also know good and well when someone doesn't understand something. Acknowledging these human traits may be uncomfortable, but it's better than trying to lie to someone who knows better.

[–] crispbacon99@lemmy.zip 19 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Also auditory processing disorder

[–] daychilde@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

I have to explain this one a lot when I go, "What? Oh, [answers question]" lol

[–] davidhun@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 days ago

I'd like to be able to turn on closed captioning for in-person conversations.

[–] miked@piefed.social 2 points 3 days ago

yes. half the time I have no idea what my manager is saying to me. she will mumbling to herself and then add me to her conversation.

[–] Janx@piefed.social 6 points 3 days ago

That's better. I usually go with, "I just pooped my pants, can we circle back?"