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[–] Freeposity@lemmy.world 78 points 18 hours ago (4 children)

And it's not even just the homeless who are affect by shit like this. I can't tell you how many park benches I slept on in my twenties when I lived in Europe and I'd stay out too late and have to chill out somewhere until morning.

In America you can't take a nap in your car or even read a book in your car without having the cops hassle you.

I wonder what the cops are going to do when all vehicles are driverless.

[–] zergtoshi@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago

#LandOfTheFree

[–] EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

"the homeless" are always used as the excuse for stuff like this, but (as you stated are an example of) plenty of people "rough sleep" without being homeless. I've never slept on a bench, but I've spent a few nights in state parks with a hammock due to not wanting to be around my family for varying reasons. Once because I was supposed to be sleeping at a friend's house but went to a party and decided fuck this imma leave.

It's funny you mention reading because I've actually been harassed by cops for "loitering" in the park when I was sitting in my car reading.

[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 9 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (3 children)

book in your car without having the cops hassle you.

is this a reference to that video of the guy waiting out the rain in a gas station parking lot by reading a book in his car and getting absolutely harassed by the cops who very obviously wanted to provoke a larger issue?

or is this a more common genre than i realize.

[–] Freeposity@lemmy.world 1 points 16 minutes ago

Yes, I was referencing that video.

[–] gluestick@lemmy.zip 12 points 13 hours ago

I’m not arguing against the bullshit that is making homelessness an even greater indignity let alone crime. Fuck that all day forever.

But I spent a greater part of three years voluntarily homeless (~15 years ago) to avoid violence at home. I consider myself extremely fortunate that I had a car I personally owned for most (but not all) of it which was a huge boon for me.

When I had a car, I parked in the back of 24h parking lots such as Walmart. Lacking that I parked behind higher end, but not too high, restaurants that kept bars open to call (2am). I was aware that in the latter case people became aware of me, but I never had problems.

When I didn’t have a car I found a ground level HVAC unit (behind grocery/department stores) because they were great at drowning out sound and giving me a relatively constant temperature.

I avoided parks because they often have posted hours and are regularly checked by police.

I’ve never been bothered by a cop. This is my truth, but not a justification.

In some countries they literally make life easier for people to live, and even enjoy living, a travelers life. The US is not such a place

[–] protist@retrofed.com 11 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I guess there are some spots with particularly awful cops, but most places, as long as you're not parked illegally, you can totally take a nap or hang out in your car no problem

[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

All spots have particularly awful cops.

the only difference is some places have better PR/Coverup than others.

[–] Fredthefishlord@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Cops by me let the striking union workers park their cars in illegal spots while we picketed at 2am in the middle of winter. It was their act of support for the union.

Don't make the assumption of thinking all cops are equally evil. Even pieces of shit have a lot of shades. I've been horrible, hating people who are nice to everyone, including black people, but are republican voting racist scum

[–] Freeposity@lemmy.world 2 points 14 minutes ago

Don’t make the assumption of thinking all cops are equally evil.

You are right. They are on a spectrum of evil.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago

Yeah, it's ACAB. All Cops Are Bastards (because enforcing the interest of large property holders makes you do bastard things), not All Cops Are Evil.

[–] OrteilGenou@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

Avoid their cameras.