Honestly a lot of that comparison from my wife's brother would be okay. But once he claimed we had an easier time then him, I actually got a bit offended and this statement from him has since infested my mind for months. But as others have already said this is probably not the right place to post this drama and I guess they're right. Thanks for your message.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 hours ago

(Well yeah he's completely wrong about that part. But I'm sure your wife knows better, so give her and your kid a hug and don't let it rankle.)