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2) Nerds versus Jocks. Believe it or not, some people still use terms like 'nerd' and 'geek' in a derogatory way.
Sorry dude, but if this is you, then you were born in the wrong century.
It's like announcing to the room "Yeah i'm a total BONEHEAD, and I'm proud of it. And that's why i have to bully people who like school or sci-fi, or video games. Because I'm not like them - I'm big and dumb instead!"
So, first half of my point is that it's identifying with a depiction designed to put you down. Second half of my point is basically that geeky hobbies and interests have effectively been in vogue for 21 years or so. I think a lot of people talk about this.
I'm also fairly convinced that the dynamic demonstrated in 70-90s high school movies (Think Grease, revenge of the nerds or Can't buy me love' for some particularly bad offenders) is completely fabricated. Perhaps demoralisation propoganda. Perhaps something to do with promoting anti-socialism or anti-civil-rights, tbh.
What do the English have against fences? /joke