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[–] Mac@mander.xyz 2 points 4 hours ago

I was saying this absolute statement is false:

Except that when a man puts in effort, he's suddenly labeled a misogynistic creep...

This is not your comment and that's on me—i apologize (i subconsciously ignore usernames).

Please quote me where I said it never happens, btw

You make the assunption that I'm extraordinarily attractive, cool, or accepted-by-my-peers, which is hilariously untrue.

In what other situation ... ?

You're asking me when is it ever acceptable to take caution as the vulnerable party? Surely you're joking.
Also, cops. lol ACAB
Billionaires too

I pay a lot of attention to the discourse, it just doesn't affect me because I'm not a creep.

Lots of men, ugly and uncool included, are still befriending and dating women (even the creeps). You are free to approach the situation however you want.
But don't listen to me—woe is you, i guess.