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What masturbator can you recommend? (lemmy.zip)
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I'm thinking about getting a masturbator for the time after my wife has given birth. But I have no idea where to even start. Anyone here using one, and can share some experiences?

I am searching for something that:

  • is easy to clean,
  • can fit my whole dick such that I can fuck it like a vagina, and
  • maybe has some extras like vibration or suction or so.
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[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

(woman talking)

I dated a guy who had an adjustable flashlight and he really liked it (and it was fun to use on him as a nice side effect).

[–] lotharmatthaeus@lemmy.zip 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Sounds interesting. What do you mean by adjustable?

[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 20 hours ago

There was a dial on the end that let you control how hard it gripped, there was a particular setting and pace he definitely preferred.

[–] Krusty@quokk.au -1 points 20 hours ago

You should try a shampoo bottle.