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I'm thinking about getting a masturbator for the time after my wife has given birth. But I have no idea where to even start. Anyone here using one, and can share some experiences?

I am searching for something that:

  • is easy to clean,
  • can fit my whole dick such that I can fuck it like a vagina, and
  • maybe has some extras like vibration or suction or so.
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[–] atro_city@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

That's actually a good question. I'm curious about the responses. Didn't know these things existed and just searching for them popped up an immense null

My issue would be the cleaning. Not sure if there's fucktoy with a solution.

[–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago

It's funny how talk about vibrators gets both humor and acceptance as normal for women, but discussing a male counterpart is both embarrassing and made fun of, even though it is a critical health issue as men get older, and especially if there is less to no sex going on.

[–] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Top rack of the dish washer, obviously

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Spread the cum on all the dishes. Genius.

[–] Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 hours ago

It's the opposite of a non-stick coating

[–] lotharmatthaeus@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

There are some that can be opened along the long side of the tube, so they are really easy to clean.