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Probably just data mining

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[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

To a random person that makes sense ... But like this is something partners typically express.

Have you just never been in a healthy relationship where you can talk to your SO about their appearance and your preferences honestly?

Being sexy for your partner requires you to actually understand their prefences and fetishes. So you can make appeals to them.

There's nothing wrong and if anything it's highly unhealthy for the relationship to be scared to express your physical preferences. Its even worse if you are unable to accept the information openly.

It sounds like you might just either have had horridly unhealthy experiences with men. Or are possibly just a narcissist. Depending on the context your speaking about.

Seriously, a healthy relationship is foundationally built on understanding and part of that is knowing your partners perfences. It goes both ways.

[–] atomicorange@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago

You got me being a narcissist from just that?

You wouldn’t find that comment really weird from anyone you’re not sexually involved with? Yeah obviously it’s different when it’s a partner, but that’s not what we’re talking about. Unsolicited advice on how I groom myself is creepy to me. I think you’d find it creepy too, which is why I tried to give a more relatable example. Evidently that makes me a narcissist, jesus. Can’t talk about anything.

[–] minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 hours ago

A salient and compassionate perspective.