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in different social networks I often see a table of fediverse alternatives to centralized social networks like twitter = mastodon and so on, but I noticed that the alternative to reddit is piefed and not lemmy, can someone explain what kind of fediverse project this is, and is it different from lemmy?🤔

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[–] Wren@lemmy.today 58 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I've tried them both along with a few different lemmy instances and found .today on lemmy is my best fit.

Since others have covered the technical angle, I'll say I prefer lemmy from a social perspective. My instance doesn't block other instances, banning users only for extreme cases. I prefer to choose my experience for myself without being ideologically guided by someone else's values.

For all the criticisms of the lemmy developers, their biases don't make it into the code. Instances are run according to the admins and user's wishes, which allows .today to operate as openly as possible. Piefed, on the other hand, suffers from the biases of its developer, who not only blocks users but also instances of admins who don't align with them. They have passed along their ban list to other admins as well, getting users banned for disagreeing with them. That's not the behavior of someone I want running my platform of choice.

Along with that. I, personally, don't like the idea of reputation, low score flags, karma or any system based on the votes of users, since they can be easily manipulated. It feels like Piefed is trying to implement a more intense karma system, which was one of my main problems with reddit. I believe each post and comment should stand on its own merit.

[–] tomiant@piefed.social 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

>I prefer to choose my experience for myself without being ideologically guided by someone else's values.

Thank you for expressing my own opinion so succinctly.

Fucking solid take overall, tbh.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I appreciate that, thank you.

Everyone should make up their own minds when it comes to picking an instance, but it's important to know who's holding the reins.

[–] tomiant@piefed.social 1 points 3 minutes ago

No but I mean, I think this is an important conversation to have, which is hard in this intellectual climate, because everyone seems so entrenched and the only ones who don't seem to be are skeptics (although I fucking hate that term because it too has been usurped by self important douchebags who think being a skeptic means being critical of everything that doesn't happen to suit their personal dogma, kind of like how conservatives who can read and write call themselves libertarians- because it's a cooler subclass to belong to that basically believe the same thing but how the fuck did I get caught up in this tangent, anyway), a dying breed.

(/ Me, an intellectual)

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have a hard time donating to the Lemmy developers knowing that money from it goes to run .ml.

If it went to fund a neutral test instance I’d feel much better about it.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 5 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I never suggested donating to anyone.

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 12 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I donated to FOSS software that I use and I suggest that every one does too.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 4 points 23 hours ago
[–] Paddzr@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago (4 children)

The amount of extreme views I've come across made me just leave most of groups and there's very little point opening it up... lemmy simply hasn't got enough people to be blacklisting things. How do you handle it?

[–] Riverside@reddthat.com 2 points 11 hours ago

You encounter extreme views in your everyday life too, they're just normalized to you. Transphobia is extreme and violent and very prevalent, so is racism. You just perceive as extreme the ones that are very far from the norm, but the norm itself is extremely violent.

[–] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 7 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Are you blocking instances? You gotta block instances. Also block users aggressively. There aren't that many bad egg users on the respectable instances. It doesn't take too long to really clean up your feed.

[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 17 hours ago

Also block users aggressively.

Like the one moron that doesn’t use “th” or the other idiot that signed all his posts that they couldn’t be used to train AI.

Straight to the blocklist.

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

You dont miss much by blocking. If you feel the comments are impacting then 100% block because your experience will be so much better.

[–] tomiant@piefed.social 0 points 5 hours ago

So that you can be a base non participatory consumer and never have your opinions challenged or questioned?

People claim they block "extremism" and "hate" but really in most cases they block out anyone who says anything that goes counter to their personal dogma, just like, you know, extremists.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 3 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I don't know what you consider extreme views. I don't feel the need to try to handle anything.

If you're wondering how I curate my feed, I only browse by subscribed communities. If I want to find new ones I look at cross-posts, the community promotion coms, or search by interest.

[–] DougPiranha42@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Good point. If there is a karma system, the main activity for a sizeable (and by definition overrepresented) chunk of the user base will just use the platform to maximize karma, whether for nefarious purposes or just because people treat gamified systems like games. Having real user registrations (so you can block individual users) as opposed to a 4chan like thing, but having no karma system or engagement optimization algorithm in the feed, are the requirements for a healthy forum.

[–] Paragone@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'd disagree on that:

Slashdot's moderation & metamoderation system was better than any system without metamoderation,

& reddit's idiotic you-can-post-or-comment-to-collect-karma-and-delete-your-post-or-comment-keeping-your-karma .. distortion .. isn't something that's intrinsic to karma-systems: they made it intrinsic to their system by choice, which is different.

I'd have it so that if someone tries karma-farming, the instant they delete the posts/comments, all the karma from those disappears, right then.

( actually, I'd have it so that nothing can be deleted, & revisions are limited to 8 or 16 per post/comment: accountability requires that disappearing-of-history not be permitted )

Also, Slashdot had multiple, not only up/down, kinds of votes..

That's required, too..

Being unable to simultaneously vote that something is wrong & that it needs more eyes on it.. is obstruction.

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[–] DougPiranha42@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It’s not like you can detect “if someone tries karma farming”. If the platform displays a measure of engagement with content that a user posts, users will be driven to post things that get them points. Then if the platform uses said metric to rank content, that unavoidably leads to a setup where users look at content posted for the purpose of getting points. Btw lemmy.world is also not free from this, people repost engagement bait stupid shit from Reddit to asklemmy all the time, and those get many upvotes and comments. But at least the users that post these don’t get any meta-post outcomes.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Absolutely agree that people will always try to game a system that can be gamed.

I would agree with real user registration if it didn't open the ID Verification can of worms. Right now there is no way to make a KYC system airtight, and the risk outweighs the benefit, in my opinion. One user per account (if one could easily switch instances) would make for a healthier social ecosystem, though.

[–] DougPiranha42@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don’t know about you but I didn’t have to present any form of identification for registering here.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

You mentioned real user registrations, which I thought was a hypothetical control you were suggesting. Appologies if I misunderstood, I was explaining my thoughts on it.