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[–] Black616Angel@discuss.tchncs.de 50 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Yes, but the people you talk to have to do the same then.

I was talking to some coworkers a while back and one of them whined that he earned so little. I told exactly what I got and he just goes "oh, then I don't earn the least" and never talks about his salary again.

Like... At least tell me what you get!?

Btw. no one else said anything about their salary so I got exactly zero information out of that interaction.

[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 37 points 2 days ago

This is easy. Thank him for his advice that helped you get “a big raise,” then work him.

Your coworker is an ass.

[–] SuspiciousCatThing@pawb.social 30 points 2 days ago (2 children)

That definitely means you earn the least.

[–] reptar@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

(achshually) It only means you earn less than him.

[–] Black616Angel@discuss.tchncs.de 23 points 2 days ago

Okay, fair. I got 1 bit of information. 😞

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Black616Angel@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 23 hours ago

At that point I just didn't want to anymore. It's also been a few years and now I have colleagues with whom I regularly talk about our salaries.