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[–] krellor@fedia.io 19 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Lots of people have lied, but one situation stood out.

Years and years ago I trained in MMA with two guys who were brothers from Europe and we competrd in martial arts tournaments around the country. This was before MMA really took off, so think lots of gyms with competition mats hosted by regional kyukushin and other styles of karate dojos. We grew pretty close, training, competing, traveling.

One day get a call from one of them from jail. With no accent like they had always had. They had abducted a 17 year old highschool kid and murdered him execution style in the middle of nowhere after being paid by a drug dealer the kid owed weed money to. And they had priors for abuse against minors.

Never had a perception of a person do such a complete 180 so fast. Literally makes your head spin. Never really trusted strangers until I did independent verification of their backgrounds after that. They completely lived a lie to a whole crowd of us while training and competing. Just crazy to think about.

[–] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 11 points 5 days ago

I uh. I don't really know what to say to that. Fucking hell that's a lot. Im so sorry. Poor kid.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

> trains in MMA, probably exceptionakky telented at fighting adukts > chooses to use his talents to bully teenagers on behalf of drug deals

Sorry you knew that asshat