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If a human man tries doing that, people will tell him to "stop white knighting" and they'll shun him worse than the guy whose behavior he was trying to put a stop to.
The fact is that predatory behavior is often indistinguishable from typical human mating rituals when viewed from the sidelines. The difference ultimately boils down to whether the recipient of the advances is accepting of them, which is often an internal thing that no one but a mind reader could tell from an outsider's perspective.
People tend to be aloof and circumspect about these types of things. Women don't always openly reject unwanted advances. Sometimes they expect the guy to "just figure it out." And women don't always openly encourage wanted advances either. Sometimes they expect the guy to "just figure it out."
So, if a woman is being quiet, is she just playing it cool, or is she silently resenting the guy talking to her? At what point is a nearby observer supposed to step in and say "Is this guy bothering you?" And if she says "it's fine," to what extent are you supposed to take her word for it?
Or are we all just supposed to magically know the secret code to perfectly interpret every situation every time? Because at that point, what's the point of having a secret code in the first place?
I stopped talking to women because almost always they expected me to "just figure it out" without them ever having to state how they feel, good or bad. Maybe they tried dropping hints but they went over my head. Sometimes I had the feeling they were dropping a hint but I didn't know what it meant one way or the other. And then they would get upset when I didn't read their minds. And I'm supposed to believe that that's a moral failing on my part? When my whole life I've struggled with a lack of social skills in general to begin with?
So I stopped talking to women, to avoid the situation altogether. And now I'm expected to somehow intervene in other people's interactions?!? Which still requires a modicum of mind reading ability, by the way.
It's ridiculous. Men don't have this magical ability to control what other men do.