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What are your thoughts on someone who has a mental age of 22 at 32 and hangs out with people in their 20's? is that creepy/predatory? (lemmy.cafe)

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The person in question also looks like she's in her early 20's. She had a chronic condition where she was basically in a waking coma but wasn't "experiencing" stuff for a decade so it's as if time had jumped from her POV because she has no memories of that period.

This gap is so disorienting for her that she identifies her age as 22. Being told her actual birth year causes confusion and distress, as it clashes with her sense of time and personal experience.

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[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've always heard (age/2) + 7 as a minimum for dating, but agree with platonic sentiments. I'm friends with someone who's almost 60, he's almost twice my age

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I was friends with an 81 year old at 27. I’m sure she occasionally smiled to herself about my comparative immaturity (though she probably considered it youthfulness) and we wouldn’t have been a good match for a romantic relationship or a business partnership, but that’s fine for normal friends.