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[–] Asafum@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago

Nearing 40 in an area with nothing but old rich people, currently renting one of their garage "apartments."

Atypical "introverted nerd" type, as in I work in a factory as opposed to the tech field, and am never around people like myself.

On a 1-10 scale of appearance I'm like 2.5

But worst of all, my greatest possible sin, I never want to live with a dog. According to the dating profiles I see that eliminated 99.9999999% of them.

As to why I'll continue to be single aside from all the above, I gave up ~2 years ago. My last relationship was 10 years ago. Some of us just aren't desirable to anyone and I just have to accept that.