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[–] lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Even here, the guy you’re responding to is getting down voted to oblivion (for Lemmy anyways) for an opinion that I have echoed elsewhere and gotten the opposite response.

I'm on a Lemmy instance that has downvotes disabled. I can only see that the person I replied to has 3 upvotes and that me previous comment has 2. I don't even see the negativity on Lemmy.

[–] StripedMonkey@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

He's at -5 at the moment. Depending on what instances you have blocked, you're going to see different amounts. It doesn't mean those people aren't there.

[–] Peffse@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Even if the post is true, it was the worst way to present it. It reads like trolling:

Call out people's politics with grandiose rhetoric, not backing up any claims with links to evidence.

Declare the other side is unbiased.

I mean, Internet 101 would dictate you downvote and disengage. It's not going to generate a discussion that would change minds or be constructive. Even now we're not talking about small website discoverability, but instead downvotes.

EDIT: I'm going to put my money where my mouth is. I'll try the same post.

[–] StripedMonkey@lemmy.zip -1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If you'd like evidence of the toxic or extreme side of Lemmy, it's not hard to find. Are we really disagreeing that this is a problem with Lemmy? Regardless, you're misrepresenting OP with the "declare the other side is unbiased".

This conversation started started with pushing back on the idea of using Lemmy as a solution to small site discoverability. The toxicity and social aspects are perfectly relevant.

[–] Peffse@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

right right. Totally agree. The community here hurts it's discoverability. My criticism is only in the way to the post was worded.

I had this big explanation, but I realized it's not worth it. I already covered what I wanted to say.

[–] lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com 2 points 2 months ago

Good that we don't have karma here...