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I'm technically eligible as my grandparents were both Irish citizens. The one negative is my wife and kids are not. My cousin who actually works for the Irish consulate said that if I had started the paperwork prior to getting married and having kids, they would be eligible. So like I can bounce out and leave my family behind, but I really don't want to do that.
I don't think it matters if they are a citizen or not. Every EU member state has some form of spousal and dependent program to bring them in, and if not, they could likely apply without and still get granted to stay. Just get the citizenship for yourself first and go from there.
Good call, I know an immigration lawyer. I might reach out to him, but I think he mostly deals with deportation stuff domestically, but he might know a bit or at least be able to put me in touch with someone who does.
What if you divorced, became a citizen, then remarried her in Ireland? Would she and the kids be able to get permanent residency then?
At least y'all would pass the "do you actually know each other" test.
Immigration: so how did you meet this woman?
You: well you see, it all started before we got married the first time...
That is a move. I'd imagine they probably thought about that though
Might be worth getting the passport anyway. It's very solid and gives you access to support from any EU consulate if you're abroad.
Wait so it is better for my partner if I get my EU citizenship through Ireland then get married than to get married before citizenship?
I was going to work on getting my Irish citizenship, though the thought of many American going there makes Ireland less attractive.
That's my understanding. Are you doing it through the grandparents rule?
I wouldn't worry about it. There aren't any noticeable number here tbh and any I've come across who have moved here are sound.
Well my grandfather was Irish but also my mother was born in Ireland so it is either a parent or grandparent option.
Oh nice. I think it's fairly straightforward in that case, though obviously I've never done it. Your nearest embassy will be able to fill you in handy enough.
If you do take the plunge and have questions drop me a line by all means but with an Irish parent I'm sure you'll have plenty of family here willing to help.