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I think we agree for the most part. I also didn't mean to imply reading literature = intelligent because I also don't believe that. The people I described are people in my life who I believe are incredibly intelligent, just not academic.
On my last point, it's my realist take. I have EDS (excessive daytime sleepiness), so even if I really really believe I will enjoy a tougher read, sometimes I can't stay awake long enough to get through a page. During those periods, I'll take the easier self help or scifi book to keep me going. But yeah, challenging ourselves is part of the joy. When I was a struggling college student, I became very depressed for a while, and I distinctly remember picking up a philosophy book at the city library and reading an excerpt about hedonism and eudaimonism which changed my outlook for the better. The idea that we need both short term pleasures and long-term purpose to feel happy/fulfilled helped me work through the challenges, making sure I still went out and had fun in between, which now I look back on with some sense of fondness and pride. I see reading a tough book that interests me in the same way.
Awesome! I'll add that to my reading list :)