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[–] StickyDango@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

That's a great question and there are so many good answers in this thread.

Don't expect your superiors to ever back you up. I got burned so many times. I knew I was right, but they didn't have a backbone and only thought about the budget, their reputation, and the work they'd have to put in for damage control. I wanted to shut restaurants for their filthiness, but "Oh noes, what will the community think". Well, if someone dies, then it's on your head. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING.

Even if a conversation or direction was made verbally, always follow up with an email to say "Just to confirm our conversation today, you have directed me to...." Even if it's about holidays. My old boss was such a prick. Him and all upper management are the reason I am suspicious of everyone and everything.

99% of people don't wash their hands properly.

[–] CaptPretentious@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The number of times I've seen people get out of the shitter and just head back to work, is disgustingly too damn high. I used to bring sanitary wipes with to clean every door handle. Now I work from home thankfully.

[–] StickyDango@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Now, picture the same people in restaurants preparing your food. It's exactly the same thing 💀

I threatened to call the fire marshal on an employer once if they didn't fix an emergency exit. It got fixed that night, but can't say it ingratiated me with management.

But I had told them about the broken door for almost a month.

[–] Everyday0764@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

same here, so exhausting.