this post was submitted on 17 Mar 2026
294 points (84.5% liked)

World News

54976 readers
2440 users here now

A community for discussing events around the World

Rules:

Similarly, if you see posts along these lines, do not engage. Report them, block them, and live a happier life than they do. We see too many slapfights that boil down to "Mom! He's bugging me!" and "I'm not touching you!" Going forward, slapfights will result in removed comments and temp bans to cool off.

We ask that the users report any comment or post that violate the rules, to use critical thinking when reading, posting or commenting. Users that post off-topic spam, advocate violence, have multiple comments or posts removed, weaponize reports or violate the code of conduct will be banned.

All posts and comments will be reviewed on a case-by-case basis. This means that some content that violates the rules may be allowed, while other content that does not violate the rules may be removed. The moderators retain the right to remove any content and ban users.


Lemmy World Partners

News !news@lemmy.world

Politics !politics@lemmy.world

World Politics !globalpolitics@lemmy.world


Recommendations

For Firefox users, there is media bias / propaganda / fact check plugin.

https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/media-bias-fact-check/

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
 

MJ calls what happened to her in Zion national park “small ‘T’ trauma”. She knows women have experienced worse from their partners. But she still feels the anger of being left behind on a hike by her now ex. “It brings up stuff in my body that maybe I have not cleared out yet,” she said.

Five years ago, MJ and a new partner – he was not exactly her boyfriend, and the pair were not exclusive – traveled from Los Angeles to Utah for an adventure getaway. MJ, who is 38 and works in PR, was looking forward to exploring Zion’s striking scenery; its vast sandstone canyon and pristine wading trails were on the list. But on the morning of their big hike, MJ was not feeling well. She could not shake the feeling that something was “off”; indeed, MJ would learn on this trip that her partner was seeing other women.

As they made their way up Angel’s Landing, MJ’s partner started walking faster than her. “I could tell it was getting on his nerves that I was slow,” she said. “I was like, ‘Fuck it, just go ahead of me.’” He did without hesitation.

When she caught up at the top of the mountain, they took a picture together. Then her partner hiked down the mountain with a woman he had met on the way up, leaving MJ to finish by herself. They broke up shortly after that trip. (MJ asked to be referred to by her initials for the sake of speaking openly about a past relationship.)

Last month, MJ opened TikTok and heard the phrase “alpine divorce”, a label she now attaches to her experience in Zion.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] non_burglar@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

men are attracted to this hobby in larger numbers and tend to have more experience doing it

That's my point. I call bullshit on that.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 4 points 6 days ago (2 children)

The gender breakdown of avid hikers results in more men than women hiking. About 55-57% of hikers are men.

I'm really not trying to like argue with you or anything, I just think you're misreading what they meant. There are more men that hike than women statistically.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

This thread is all about feelings

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I think you're both talking past each other. You are technically correct that men are statistically more likely to be interested in hiking and experienced in hiking. They are correct in their lived experience that they have seen just as many men and women as experienced hikers personally. I can also attest to feeling this.

I've worked in the outdoor industry where the norm was to be paired up with a co-leader of the opposite gender. When you are living in an outdoor area with lots of avid hikers, it doesn't seem like a big preponderance of men. Those few percentage points doesn't seem to make that big a difference.

Maybe the women in the same situation feel like there are more men out there? I don't know. I've heard that one feature of having privilege is not realizing that there's anything privileged about your position. That would make sense to me that the men in the situation don't realize it if they outnumber the women.

Like stoly said, this thread is all about feelings.