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What's something normal that should remain a taboo?

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[–] MissGoldenSocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

Fast fashion.

Unconscious consumption in general. People are pouring crazy amounts of money into plastic garbage, "collectibles", general useless and unnecessary junk, lifestyle products etc. Then they defend it with a flippant "lol intrusive thoughts won UwU". I wouldn't even mind so much if it wasn't too often the case that these same people also complain about environmental issues and capitalism.

"but but i'm a magpie, I'm a loot goblin" is just normalizing the behavior, trying to make it cute. It's not. You're very directly contributing to the increasing waste problem in the world and giving money to megacorps (think plastic production in particular). If you absolutely must do this, find products made of natural materials, produced by real people. Yes, it'll cost more. Yes, that's the real price of your obsession.

[–] Waveform@multiverse.soulism.net 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, I see a lot of people appropriate neurodivergent lingo to justify it. Being autistic doesn't mean your life literally depends on owning every figure of your favorite anime.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Waveform@multiverse.soulism.net 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

"OCD made me buy the set."

"Intrusive thoughts won."

"Didn't have enough spoons to resist an impulse."

"Something something ADHD something something ooh shiny thrinket"

"Me spending another 10dollars on useless junk for a drop of serotonin"

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

Oh yeah those are terrible

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Careful. This sounds a lot like encouraging people to take personal responsibility of their consumption habits. That's literally fascism. We need government regulation to stop us from doing things, that's freedom.

Someone might throw the Mr. Gotcha meme at you.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's literally fascism

Look up the words you type

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Some people really can't detect sarcasm without the /s, huh.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 1 points 1 day ago

Just look at some of the discourse held here on lemmy. Telling sarcasm from some lunatic’s thoughts in writing is pretty hard