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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

I have a few things.

This place has groups that are singlemindedly bloodthirsty and happy to see people hurt, particularly in the US, and don’t have a problem stating so.

Tangentially - the far left extolling the virtues of governing systems that have never really worked due to weak protections against takeover by bad actors and ignoring that those systems are just as corruptible as any other. Humans are f’d up and someone always games the system for personal or tribal advantage.

Linux. Yeah, it’s great. No, it cannot do everything Windows does, and we’re going to ignore that and deride you for playing AAA studio games that have anticheat that linux breaks or other software that doesn’t work on the OS. That’s your fault, we’ll be smug about it, and still recommend ditching Windows.

Conspiracies. This place acts like it has some superior thought or logic but as soon as something happens the conspiratards immediately make it a conspiracy and can’t be told otherwise regardless of logic - or accept a far more real but less exciting conspiracy. Everyone jumps on the bandwagon.

Lastly it’s missing the hobby and interest groups. It’s mostly memes and politics. I’d like to see more actual communities of interests and support for hobbies on the Fediverse rather than the constant grind of how f’d up the world is.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 7 points 1 week ago

the communities here that thrive have massive superiority complexes.

the reason hobby subs here don't thrive is the userbase here isn't interested in being humble or chill the way many such communities are humble and chill.

This place has groups that are singlemindedly bloodthirsty and happy to see people hurt, particularly in the US, and don’t have a problem stating so.

It's so tiring. I did my job, I voted, I told my friends to vote, I send a few emails every now and then to my reps, I go to protests, I try to self host and avoid some companies, and I cheer when foreigners say they want to distance from the US. I live, still. But it's hard to not feel like shit when every other post or comment is "If you guys love guns so much then use them," and, "All Americans are trash and wanted this," and, "If Nepal could do it, why can't they do it too?"

It's exhausting to hear. It's not that simple. We can't just solve every political issue with weapons and violence, because then you just get another tyrant pn the throne eventually. We are not all racists who are eager to see our immigrant neighbors get kidnapped from the streets. I feel helpless about the suffering that is happening around me, and the fact that people who aren't here experiencing it just get to joke, laugh, and shame makes it hard to stay on this site sometimes.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You should follow Wren from my instance. They have a bunch of really cool and niche hobbies they share. They actually got me to make my own paper with junk mail.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That sounds like fun. Do they have a /c or just post random stuff?

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 1 week ago

They mod a few communities where they post artsy stuff like making paper, diy book binding, and just now I saw something on cool rocks by them. So kinda both.

[–] Samskara@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 week ago

conspiracies

Lots of outright misinformation gets posted and cheerfully upvoted, if it confirms biases.

Antisemitism is so widespread, it’s actually scary.