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I honestly do not know the difference between and a stim toy and I usually use the two terms interchangeably.

My favorite fidget toys is my flippy chain. I use this thing all the time and take it with me everywhere. And I love that it's discreet and quiet.

What's your favorite fidget toy, or thing yiu like to fidget/stim with?

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[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (3 children)

Unfortunately mine is cigarettes

That’s no a joke I bet a lot of undiagnosed people smoke just because they have adhd.

Tap for spoilerIt gives you something to do with your hands you can also you have an easy out when in social situations or overstimulation. “I gonna have a quick smoke.” Boom ten minutes to your self.

You want to avoid eye contract with that stranger while walking . You ever look at your phone just to avoid eye contact. Smoking allows you to shield from the wind which means hands in front of face, looking down, sometimes even turning your back entirely to the person. And you can click that lighter as long as you need to. “Oh no the lighter is busted. I now have to immediately leave this area to go get another lighter!”

Also non smokers give you personal space when you smoke

The problem is it’s a subscription service of $10 a day and also are forced to enter a cancer lotto every day.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Quit nicotine; vape live resin instead.

Ditched cigarettes for THC eight years ago and it's the best decision I've ever made. It tastes better, doesn't make you stink nor stain your teeth, and the buzz is a lot nicer too. Like a cozy blanket and a cup of hot chocolate on a cold winter's day.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

and also are forced to enter a cancer lotto every day.

don't tell me that on days like today

[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Love you to death my guy but I did censor it. The rest is in you.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

oh, my meaning is not the usual one. it's more "Cancer? Where? Gimme!" it's been a month.

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 5 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

I feel you. I'm glad I quit and all, but I still miss smoking more days than not. You described it absolutely perfectly. Also you can watch the ember glow, flick the ash, turn the cigarette around in your hand...

Plus I'm one of those who really enjoyed the taste, too. Especially now that spring is coming I miss sitting outside in the warm sunlight with a coffee and a cigarette.

[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I feel you on taste. I tried vape once and the only flavor I liked could be best described as Liquid ashtray. I could stand the “coconut mango “ type flavors “

Tap for spoilerHave you ever tried smoking while taking a shit? That’s is the best cigarette. I don’t smoke inside anymore tho ruins the paint, the dog doesn’t like, also it gives the kids cancer.

Sorry don’t want to portray smoking in too much of a positive light. It’s a deadly habit but it goes well with adhd. Except for the cancer.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I dated someone for whom that sadly was absolutely a dealbreaker alto it was far from the only one lol

[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Want to know something funny? I started smoking because a girl called me a boy. I was just a boy but I wanted to lie about being a man

Tap for spoilerThat’s where smoking came to my mind. I purposely became a smoker as an early to prove to a girl a was older: anyway the end of the story or she couldn’t stand cigarette smoke. So we broke up. “Goodbye taja. By the way your view in ancient Egyptian is really wrong. Your tattoo ideas are as cringe as me starting smoking

She was cute though

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I dont have tat ideas besides i would never get one lol. Whered u get that

[–] Aeao@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I was complaining about the girl not you lol

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Lmao i grouped it under me