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I used to be strictly materialist and atheist. Now I’m pretty spiritual. Don’t necessarily follow a religion and don’t support bigotry but yeah, I’m fairly spiritual now. This is a recent development and I never thought I’d be here like 5 years ago.

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[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 84 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I was raised conservative, back-country compound with apocalypse preppers, homeschooling, israel prophecy, the whole nine yards. I was raised with The 700 Club and Rush Limbaugh playing every day and night.

I read science books that distant family members managed to smuggle to me in gift boxes alongside other "safe" books like Kid's bibles, I learned more and more about the world around me, I started collecting my own book collection and just read and read and read, and the doubts started to grow, uneasy, shameful, scary-as-fuck doubts.

But the big turn happened when I got out of there, and America started one it's many wars and I was watching FOX news cover it. A humvee passes a civilian box truck and shredded it to pieces with an automatic grenade launcher. Probably a family trying to escape the city... cut to the host, smiling and praising America's might, and that's when it hit me: We're the bad guys.

A few more things really sealed it, when I had friends start to come back from these conflicts in boxes, or a couple guys I knew who blew their own brains out after coming home. I still despair at these horrific wastes of life and I can't figure out why more people don't see life as precious. How fucking stupid do you have to be to justify war, murder and causing destruction to society.

[–] fizzle@quokk.au 34 points 4 days ago

God it's awkward now to look back but I used to vote conservative.

There's a phrase here "temporarily embarrassed millionaires", referring to people who vote for policies that benefit wealth people because they identify as a wealthy person even though they are absolutely not. That was me.

[–] GameOverFlow@lemmy.zip 16 points 4 days ago

And America is doing it again. While I think Iran's government is even more evil, a war is not the right thing to do.