cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/7167

Days, weeks, or months ago (if that's correct), I subscribed to a managed hosting service.

One of the apps is Lemmy, which I use more frequently than other apps like micro-blog.

Firstly, I paid less than the monthly price because it was days to weeks before the first fixed due date: June 1st.

Then, I was saving my money and doing some business by helping my mother sell and market her gardening materials.

A few days before the first due date, I had more than enough to cover the upcoming major managed hosting service fees.

In Lemmy, it's easier for me to assess whether my opinions or knowledge are compatible or agreeable with the public, partly because of the upvotes, downvotes, scores, and upvote percentage features.

I also experienced in Lemmy that there are many differing opinions; some genuinely support me, while others using Lemmy made me think they need to improve their online attitude and behavior.

I also have the idea or suggestion that Lemmy developers should make a built-in poll feature available, where the poll could include options such as: only local Lemmy instance users can vote (for example, for instance rule changes and policies), and another option allowing users from Lemmy software, whether local or fediverse, to vote.

My Fediverse lifelong journey is still my choice. I find that those very popular social networks aren't relevant for me, such as Reddit, Instagram, Facebook, and X. They are not relevant for me.

It's because they're closed source; I can't view or audit them fully. I have to trust their reputation and terms of service alone.

Paying for managed hosting is awesome because these Fediverse or ActivityPub protocol software and even the client apps are usually free, libre, and open source (FLOSS). At least this gives me a chance to own or rent them as I see fit, instead of blindly following big tech.

Thank you for reading my long essay. Yes, I used AI to correct my grammar.

• My savings for the 1st July due:

• Pokémon pic:

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/2244

For mobile phone client applications for Lemmy, I generally prefer using Boost for Lemmy and Summit for Lemmy.

The Boost app is proprietary, as it offers an ad-free version available for a small fee. The Boost Lemmy client app features a Material You color theme that aligns closely with Material Design guidelines. Additionally, I find the rocket icon particularly appealing.

I particularly appreciate the Summit app because it makes it convenient to capture screenshots or photos of posts directly within the app, without needing to rely on the phone's built-in screenshot functionality.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/3256

Summary

• I Updated My Server Rules — To Protect and Include Everyone

• Hello friends,

• I’ve just updated the community rules for Kadai Kupi Space — the Lemmy instance I host from Sabah, Malaysia.

• These updates are made with love and care, to make this space more inclusive, safe, and respectful — especially for people who use AI tools to help with writing, communication, or learning.

• Why the Update?

• Some people use AI to:

  • Help write or fix grammar (especially if English isn’t their first language)
  • Express thoughts clearly (like neurodivergent people)
  • Translate between languages
  • Be more polite or confident in their writing

• I believe these tools can help us join more conversations — not block them.

• So, I updated our rules to protect people who use AI responsibly. No one should be banned or downvoted just because they used an AI to help. That’s unfair, especially if the content is kind, respectful, and useful.

• What’s New in the Rules?

• Clear support for AI as an accessibility tool, not just a “tech thing”

• Rules against harassing or mocking people for using AI

• We now hold people accountable if they abuse their moderation powers to remove AI-generated content without a real reason

• You can still use AI — as long as it’s honest, respectful, and not used to mislead or harm others

• We All Deserve a Voice

• This update is for people who:

  • Are autistic, disabled, or neurodivergent
  • Are learning English or another language
  • Want to be more thoughtful with their words
  • Use AI tools to participate more fully online

• If AI helps you communicate better — you are welcome here.

• If you don’t use AI, that’s okay too — just respect those who do.

• Thank you for being part of this small space.

• Let’s keep it kind, weird, warm — and safe for everyone.

• – Kalvin / @kaeurenne

• Admin of Kadai Kupi Space

📄 Want to read the full updated rules?
Check them out here: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/legal

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/2918

Summary

• Greta Van Fleet’s “Age of Machine” is more than just a hard rock song; it’s a poetic reflection of modern digital dependence.
• The track’s dystopian riff and mournful chorus transport listeners into a bleak yet familiar world resembling our own.
• The intro riff evokes a mechanical, industrial landscape that signals this dystopia is present in our current reality.
• The opening lyrics depict technology becoming deeply embedded in our lives from birth, describing a “perfect child” plugged into an “electric tomb.”
• The phrase “electric tomb” symbolizes digital overstimulation hiding authentic human experiences from a young age.
• Verse 2 portrays humans as creators of an omnipresent force, representing social media, cloud systems, or AI, heading towards new frontiers.
• The line “interstellar shores” hints at escapism and the pursuit of higher connectivity or intelligence.
• Verse 3 indicates that even “godlike” machines can malfunction, leading to emotional and social consequences like burnout and disconnection.
• When systems fail, they cause emotional collapse and reflect the fragile nature of our reliance on technology.
• Verse 4 offers a moment of liberation, advocating for unplugging and shedding societal expectations embedded in digital life.
• “No more underscores” suggests abandoning artificial identities created online.
• Opening “the doors” symbolizes reconnecting with reality, nature, or human relationships outside the digital realm.
• The chorus emphasizes the emotional pain inflicted by digital interactions, expressing feelings of defeat, being cheated, and retreating.
• It calls for healing, recognizing the inner wounds caused by virtual isolation, ghosting, and long-distance digital heartbreak.
• The chorus includes a plea for higher help, acknowledging that only a higher power or oneself truly comprehends the damage endured.
• The guitar solo symbolizes data mining, likening it to extracting gold, emphasizing data’s value in today's economy.
• Visuals of figures mining a human-like statue reinforce the metaphor that personal data is commodified and exploited for profit.
• The song’s conclusion loops through riffs and instrumentals, illustrating the ongoing, unending cycle of dependence on the machine.
• Rather than resolving, it emphasizes the relentless, draining feedback loop we are trapped in.
• “Age of Machine” acts as a mirror, prompting self-examination of how much we let machines shape our identities and sense of humanity.
• The song is a call for healing and a reflection on what it takes to reconnect with genuine human experience.
• It encourages listeners to consider unplugging and stepping away from digital dependence, even if just temporarily.
• The interpretation has evolved over time, reflecting a personal journey of understanding and perspective.
• The author acknowledges AI assistance in refining this reflection, emphasizing a focus on meaningful expression.

You are welcome to read the full article where I share my personal interpretation of the song's lyrics, inspired by my own ideas and years of experience analyzing the song. I also used assistance from AI to support the writing of the article. Thank you very much, and I hope you enjoy it!

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/4105

Summary

• Why I Blocked Certain External Communities on Lemmy
• As a user and admin of Kadai Kupi Space, I recently chose to block some external Lemmy communities from my profile.
• This decision isn’t driven by drama or bitterness; it’s grounded in my commitment to my own instance’s principles—particularly ethical moderation and fair treatment of users who utilize AI tools.
• I was banned or removed from certain communities with vague reasons like “AI spam,” despite their guidelines not mentioning AI-generated content as spam or explicitly prohibiting AI use.
• Our community guidelines emphasize:
  • §8.1 — Moderation should be fair and proportionate; targeted deletions or punishments without clear rule violations are discouraged.
  • §8.2 — We defend users who:
    • 8.2.1 — Are removed or banned solely for using AI or assistive technologies
    • 8.2.2 — Share content that complies with rules but are externally punished without cause
  • §8.3 — Labeling users as "AI spam" without assessing content quality or rule violations constitutes discriminatory moderation.
• I created Kadai Kupi Space as a respectful, inclusive community, especially for those using AI for accessibility, communication, or language support.
• I personally rely on AI to clarify and express my ideas more effectively, particularly in English.
• I’m not demanding others adopt my rules; I have chosen to align myself with communities that do.
• That’s why I’ve blocked those external communities on a personal level.
• If you’re interested, our full guidelines are available at: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/legal
• I encourage thoughtful discussion but believe every user—especially those relying on assistive tools—deserves fairness, not discrimination.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.kadaikupi.space/post/2756

Hi everyone,

I just updated the community guidelines on my Lemmy instance, Kadai Kupi Space, to clearly support people who use AI tools to communicate, write, or participate — especially those who need these tools for accessibility.

Some users — including autistic people (like me), disabled users, or non-native English speakers — rely on AI to express themselves more clearly. These tools help us take part in digital spaces that are often difficult without support.

From now on, my instance will:

• Protect users who use AI for accessibility or support
• Not allow harassment or abuse against people for using AI tools
• Hold abusers, not AI users, accountable
• Support ethical, honest use of AI — but without policing or shaming

This is about fairness and respect. AI tools can help people be heard — and no one should be punished for that.

Thanks for reading. You can check out the updated rules here: Kupi² Space Legal

cross-posted from: https://zerobytes.monster/post/2151509

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The original was posted on /r/earthporn by /u/rolling_sloane on 2023-09-25 11:07:06+00:00.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.staphup.nl/post/46490

First, thank you to Carmela Coffee for sponsoring this video! For 10% off all items at this select location: 5560 N Military Trl, Boca Raton, FL 33431 you can use my code FMC10.

In this episode, Maria Falcon shares her personal journey of looking for truth in all the lies of palm readers, tarot cards, and various new age practices. Her search for answers led her down a path filled with mysticism and uncertainty, until an encounter with Jesus transformed her life. Tune in as Maria discusses her spiritual exploration, the challenges she faced, and the freedom she found through putting her faith in Jesus!

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• Uploader: Trysten Tice
• Uploader url: https://www.youtube.com/@trystentice
• Channel url: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMyiB_tWrpp6SP0cbmytYyQ

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/5708313

Ingredients:

2 pounds pork ribs or pork rib tips (cut into 1-2-inch/2.5-5cm pieces)
5 slices ginger (⅛-inch thick and smashed)
9 cups water (plus more for soaking and blanching the ribs)
1 1/2 pounds winter melon
1 1/4 teaspoon sea salt (plus more to taste)
white pepper (to taste)
1 handful cilantro and/or scallions (chopped)
light soy sauce (to serve with the ribs)

Instructions:

Soak the ribs in a bowl of cold water for 1 hour to get rid of blood and impurities. Drain. If you are strapped for time, this step isn’t strictly necessary, as you’ll be blanching them also in the next step.

Add the ribs to a large soup pot along with enough water to cover. Bring to a boil. Simmer for 1 minute, and turn off the heat. Drain and rinse the ribs under running water, and clean your soup pot. This step is important––it keeps your broth clear and clean-tasting.

Put the blanched pork ribs, smashed ginger slices, and 9 cups of water back in the soup pot. Bring to a boil, and immediately reduce the heat down to medium-low. Cover and simmer for 90 minutes.  Cantonese soups require low heat for a delicate flavor and clear broth. Check on the soup periodically to make sure it is lightly simmering, but not boiling.

Meanwhile, prepare the winter melon: trim off the thick skin, rinse it clean, and cut it into ¼-inch thick (6mm) bite-size pieces.

After 90 minutes, use a ladle to skim off the excess grease floating at the top of the soup, then add the winter melon and salt. Cover and simmer for another 15 minutes, until the winter melon is just cooked through (don’t overcook it—it should still have some bite to it).

Add the white pepper and adjust the salt to taste as well. Finally, add the scallions and/or cilantro.

After cooking in the soup for so long, the ribs are melt-in-your-mouth tender and perfect with a little soy sauce! Serve the soup with a hot bowl of rice and a small dish of light soy sauce as a dipping sauce for the pork 

cross-posted from: https://zerobytes.monster/post/2152515

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The original was posted on /r/natureisfuckinglit by /u/HeyIamShy on 2023-09-25 11:51:47+00:00.

cross-posted from: https://lemmygrad.ml/post/1854989

My job is very dirty and labour intensive so i don't understand why I make 1000 words a day on those days, but 200 words a day on weekends.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/5173888

Watercolor on paper

cross-posted from: https://feddit.nl/post/3365497

Pictured is Slot Loevestein

cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/730929

It really feels like Lemmy is alive because of you.

When I first checked out Lemmy, I wasn't expecting there to be so much content, so much discussion, and so much community. But I've spent the better part of two days glued to my screen, browsing content all day. I've seen so many posts, so many interesting discussions about the fediverse, and of course, plenty of memes. It really feels like the start of something incredible.

I've gotta get back to work soon, but wow. I think this whole fediverse thing really is the next step for social media. If I find some extra time, I'll definitely consider contributing to Lemmy's source code to help this project and the FOSS ecosystem grow.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/1148280

Why YSK: These tips may help you pick a more ripe, juicier, sweeter watermelon.

cross-posted from: https://feddit.ch/post/64699

My old person trait is that I think 'ghosting' is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ca/post/5365140

I came across this recipe for basic white bread (what the recipe called it), is a nice sandwich bread. Not to crumby and firm pain in taste. But it's easy and cheap to make. I didn't take pictures but used the dough from the other loaf to make cinnamon rolls, got ate too quickly.

cross-posted from: https://startrek.website/post/1773462

Must have been a primo spot because he didn't even budge at the sound of the vacuum cleaner.