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How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping (yiffit.net)

submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'm having some personal issues causing some severe depression and anxiety. I'd like to get past this time as fast as possible, and my days are dragging on. I can't sleep, which would be a good way to make time go fast. But I also can't just play video games, I don't have the motivation to play more than a few minutes and it also just makes me realize how alone I am with no friends or anyone I can connect with emotionally and I spiral into my anxiety and depression.

I can do stuff during the day, run, chores, etc. But as soon as I'm done, especially at night, I start freaking out and it seems like time stands still. Does anyone have any suggestions? Activities I can do that are mindless that will just kill time and get me through the night before I can just go to sleep?

I know this question is stupid but I'm looking for at least somewhat serious answers.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

I think it's generally agreed that repeated experiences are a good way of making time pass faster: your brain recognises a situation and says "I'm not needed here; I'll fast-forward to something more challenging". Binge TV you've already seen. When I was in your situation I listened to a lot of radio plays, audio books and podcast series.

Do keep running and exercising. Can you ride a bike? Building up some familiar routes might help pass the time in a healthy way.

I am sorry to hear that you're feeling low. It's the new epidemic. Hang in there and I do hope life gets more enjoyable in time.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Getting books from the library to read?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Not OP but I personally don't have enough patience to read entire book. I just can't. I don't know how other people read whole book in few days.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Audiobooks. Libby app for local library and countless audiobooks already covered by your library card.

I’ve listened to/read so many books. Short ones that are 4 hours or so to entire series where each book is about 20 hours or so.

Long drive? Audiobook. Yard work? Audiobook.

I find myself looking forward to the mundane chores because it gives me an excuse to get back into whatever story/book I’m enjoying.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

How about chess? I know you said you are not really looking for video games, but chess to me is a bit different to video games.

I had a similar problem to you a few years ago during Covid. I was very stressed and lonely and didn’t know what to do with myself. I am completely addicted to chess now. To the point that I play for like 4-8h a night sometimes. Time passes fast, especially in the shorter time modes. And if you are looking for a more low stakes, slow paced distraction you can play correspondents chess and think about your next move for 1.5 hours.

Bonus: if i tell people that i play chess for over an hour every day, they often assume i am a genius, even tho I’m just a 800 elo idiot like most people