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So there used to be this one person I talked to, "Alex" (any pronouns, nb?). Anyway, I found out they were actually close friends with these "fortune tellers" who kept wanting me to send nudes and do roleplays where they would have sex with me without my consent (so rapey pedophilic roleplays).

Like, out of nowhere, the fortune tellers would say shit like "(kisses your pussy and fucks you)".

Well, anyway, Alex would always want me to sext them and would get mad and not talk to me if I didn't. Whenever I'd talk to them, they'd change the subject to something sexual and get impatient with me.

They would always talk to me about meeting up with me and wanted to know so much about me but whenever I asked them, they wouldn't tell me and would dodge the question, like they asked what state I lived in. I told them, but when I said "What about you?" they said "Don't worry about it."

I asked them if we could call and they always wanted videos and voice clips of me, but would refuse when I asked them and would say "Oh, let's just meet up, I don't want to call".

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[–] foodandart@lemmy.zip 14 points 3 days ago

Yaah. I’d be breaking off contact super fast if they won’t reciprocate any of the things you ask.

Super sketchy and don’t let anyone lead you on.

[–] Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

That's about as textbook grooming as it gets.

[–] may_be@thelemmy.club 10 points 3 days ago

Groomed, Alex is suspicious...

Groomed. Report them.

[–] bitteroldcoot@piefed.social 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

if Alex knows where you live, then the fortune tellers know where you live. This is a dangerous situation. And everything is fine, right up till it's not. Take precautions now. I have no idea about your age or living situation. But you sound very naive. Go stay with a relative or friend for a while, and cut Alex off completely.

[–] blackwitch@lemmy.eco.br 4 points 3 days ago

Thank you, they only know my state thankfully

[–] Quexotic@infosec.pub 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I am concerned for your safety.

[–] blackwitch@lemmy.eco.br 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] Quexotic@infosec.pub 2 points 3 days ago

Ok. I'm relieved. Definitely a groomer