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I always felt like it was wrong to block an account unless it was smth absolutely insane. Nazis etc.

But now I'm blocking people who's tone I dont like, or who are baiting or actingnin bad faith.

I know I can't do it as a mod. But i can certainly do it as an individual now. Judgy comment? Blocked. Unnecessarily confrontational? Blocked.

This is new to me, literally 3 days. Wonder how this affects my feed. Only disappointing thing is they can still see and respond to my posts, just that I can't see it. I wish they couldn't see anything I posted either.

What are your blocking habits? If you do block a lot of people, has that affected your experience?

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[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'd say there could be two styles:

  • In one, you want to see the "real" unfiltered Internet, or try to not wrap yourself in information bubbles.
  • In another, you make your Internet space more welcoming and inspiring.

Both have their merits, with the first improving your grip on real state of affairs, and the other stimulating you to be productive and positive, and being on the Internet as a place to enjoy life.

Personally, I go with the first, since I'm very concerned about how societal attitudes shift in the world. Granted, Lemmy itself is a bit of an echo chamber, but this is not the only place I hang around.

[–] FishFace@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Those categories do exist but I'd say there's a third important one which tries to achieve the first without sacrificing the second: blocking people for their attitude rather than their opinions.

Maybe for you this still comes under the first category

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[–] athairmor@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You’ve no obligation to socialize with everyone in real life, why should online be any different?

If someone is consistently annoying, rude or spouting noxious stuff, you’re perfectly reasonable in blocking them.

Interaction in written text online is still a fairly unnatural way for humans to communicate. It’s missing the depth that physical and aural clues provide.

Add to that the evidence that humans can’t really manage more than about 50 relationships makes these global forums too much for a person to really handle.

Block away. Trim your interactions to a manageable level.

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[–] GladiusB@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

blocked

Kidding. I block BS and mean ness. If someone can express their point and let me express mine, I'm good. It's when people start insulting others to get their point out I just don't resonate with them and don't see a point of ever talking to them again.

[–] zipzoopaboop@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 month ago

Not many people get blocked, but blocking communities is great

[–] Alfredolin@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I personally do not block. I have always hoped to see changes of heart in people I disagree with, and I also have been on much more abrasive communities, lemmy is kept relatively tidy (at least from my instance's point of view).

[–] LoafedBurrito@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

My blocked list on nextdoor is starting to max out. Have to block all the nazi's that live around me as they are a lost cause and just repeat constant propaganda.

My lemmy block list is zero and hope it will remain that way for a while. It's fairly tame discussions here and no real issues so far.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Lol no. I definetely remember good interactions in moth July woth you I think

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 month ago

I block bad writers. It hurts my brain reading their work and I get sad.

[–] UltraMagnus@startrek.website 2 points 1 month ago

I haven't blocked anyone here, but on Tumblr I started unfollowing folks who posted about doom and gloom all the time. That site's more conducive to memes and TV show discussions than it is discussion about news/politics, and I don't like scrolling through a bunch of superhero memes and then getting hit with a post about the latest atrocity in the world. That stuffs important, but it's not healthy to fixate on it all the time.

It's important to curate what you're doing so that you dont fall into a doomscrolling trap or get ragebaited into arguments that go nowhere.

[–] LemUrun@pawb.social 2 points 1 month ago

You should become adblocker...

[–] Lemming6969@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I've become massively hardened to online discourse. I don't need to block users when I can just ignore and not need to get the last word in. I know this is an incredibly rare ability, but I just wanted to entertain the idea here that there are alternatives.

The exception could be for discoverability. If garbage trolling spam overwhelms your front page, then it'll be too time consuming to wade through it.. So blocking entire communities makes a lot of sense in this case.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago

I don't ever want people I blocked to not be able to see my stuff when the account is public. It's just a weird limitation and gives a false sense of security. Though not being able to directly reply to things would be nice.

[–] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Haven't felt the need to block anyone but it's nice to have the functionality

[–] Impassionata@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's better to hurt old people's feelings than allow them to continue to debase themselves with the false belief that they're competent.

It's possible to have a readily applicable standard for polite interactions when we're not divided by fascist rhetoric.

The way feminists relate to men's issues is often founded in a universalizing noxious ideology of feminism. Men shouldn't be feminists, they should be allies.

What I'm trying to say is: blocking isn't the reason that our politics have entered into toxic polarization, fascism is the reason for that. There's nothing really wrong with blocking.

[–] AtariDump@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I block people who are clearly trolls and that one moron who signed all their posts with an anti-ai signature that does nothing because it was either that or get banned by the mods on .world because “I’m harassing them”.

[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

I generally just tag users, I've blocked a few though

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago

Blocking people is good mental health practice.

Every month or so I go through and lurge my blocklist of all bht the most aggregious posters.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Still rare, only trolls. If someone is judgy or confrontational I’ll move on. It’s only if they’re trying to start a fight, trying to create an ongoing argument that I’ll block them.

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