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I mean, how hard can it be (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 months ago by Kenny2999@lemmy.world to c/wholesome@reddthat.com
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People are pretty great on average, taking care of each other while trying to get by. Save your strength and spare the hate when ya can. Thats the post.

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[–] Amberskin@europe.pub 26 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Nah, hating and wishing bad for Nazis and fascists is OK. Beyond OK. It’s a must if you are a decent person.

[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 2 months ago

I support this compromise.

[–] Carrolade@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

What is a must is combatting it. Hating something before you choose to combat it is optional, so long as the decision to combat it is made.

In other words, if someone hated something, but did not combat it, that would be ineffective. If someone combatted something, but did not hate it, that'd be fine.

The choice and the feeling are two completely independent things.

[–] bigboismith@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

It's not worth it to be angry over people on the internet. Most of the people in real life are quite swell.

[–] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

But you can also hate some people bent on destruction like Trump, Netanyahu, Putin, Elon to name a few (feel free to add your own dipshits here). And that is completely fine. Also "people are pretty great on average" might just be your bubble.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago

This is adorable 😍

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 6 points 2 months ago

image with caption: Hate does not demean the recipient, only the sender

[–] oxysis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Nah, I need to hate on my brother, he is the source of a lot of my trauma

[–] Zozano@aussie.zone 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm with you bro.

Waitup...

[–] oxysis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 months ago

Please don’t call me bro

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I have to hate myself to become better. That's the only way

[–] jaggedrobotpubes@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It won't work, and will backfire and cause you to become hateful.

Hope things go well.

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 1 points 2 months ago

cause you to become hateful.

I'm 32yo and I'm waay out of this phase. I love people, I don't judge them for their life choices.

It will backfire on my mental health and overall stability, but it's the only mode I can improve that I have discovered so far

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Or, you could love yourself to become better. Reach towards the person who's growing, and let the rest fall away.

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 0 points 2 months ago

No, therapy didn't work

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 1 points 2 months ago

It's more of a hobby for me.