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Curls for girls (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
 

Hi girlss! 💖 I am looking for a new curl iron and there are soooo many options. I. AM. SO. LOST. 😭 Some are super expensive and some super cheap. I don’t want to pay too much but also I don’t want to cheap out

I was wondering if you have any recommendations ! What do you use and would you recommend it? Do you use any heat protection ? If so what? 😇 If you have any other suggestions for curling your hair I am all ears !

I appreciate any suggestion :)

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[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 19 points 10 months ago (3 children)

What kind of hair do you have?

Mine won't hold a curl no matter what I use so I've given up. I've tried them all and unless I fry my hair and use a ton of product (i.e. for a special event) then it will fall flat and just have this awkward flip at the end. Like, not a cute wave or curl under, but like a dated flip out.

Which is to say, I'm commenting so I can come back and find advice too 😂

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

For the record, I have fine, pin-straight hair that isn't treated. Perfect for that limp, drowned-rat-in-the-summer look 💀

[–] ValiantDust@feddit.org 8 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

In case you are interested in this topic: This likely has nothing to do with fine or very straight hair but with the porosity of your hair.
I have very low-porosity wavy hair and the only shape it keeps is the one it has. Actual curls? No. Straight? Also a no. I also have a hard time dyeing my hair at home and many products just sit on the hair without getting absorbed.
Low-porosity hair means the "scales" of the hair lie very flat. To do anything to your hair you have to lift them with either a lot of heat or chemicals. For example my hair loves hot steam. It's the only way I get it to absorb any moisture or conditioner.
Does your hair take very long to get wet? Does it float when you put it in water for a while instead of sinking? Then you probably have low-porosity hair. (There are more tests but I'd have to google them)

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

My mind is blown!! Yes, and yes! 🤯🤯

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hey me!! I paid for professional curls 18 months ago for a night out, within a couple of hours they'd gone flat. Not worth the money although they looked great!

[–] Alice@hilariouschaos.com 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Plastic night curlers hold curl really well. Just uncomfortable to sleep in

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 4 points 10 months ago

Oooh nice one thanks

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I have mostly straight hair (it tends to curl at the very end). That awkward flip is my default hair right now 😭😂

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Misery loves company.. we ride at dawn!

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 10 months ago (1 children)

If only I could give you mine!

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Your curls or your curl iron?? — Forget it, I am taking both! 😄

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

You can have the hair, but you'll have to fight Kaity for the curling iron! :P

[–] panathea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Does air dry curl cream work for you? That's been what I do most of the time.

[–] Bloom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 10 months ago

Ohh I have never tried, thank you!

[–] YarrMatey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I do not have personal recommendations for curling irons as I don't use irons, but I will say you want one that has great temperature regulation (so it does not burn your hair which might mean paying more money). I picked up a second-hand dyson blow dryer a while back because of the temperature regulation on it, it never burned my hair but I did feel like it was hot even on low so I had to move it around a lot. You always want to use a heat protection product when using high heat (which curling irons, flat irons, etc. do). It should say it protects up to 400° F, I believe 266° F is the temperature when hair actually burns. I tried the CHI products and liked it, these products will generally have silicone or something else with low thermal conductivities to protect your hair. Look for something made for flat ironing.

I follow lab muffin a lot (this is her article on heat protectants), and it does seem like your hair will still get damaged this way. I use K18 which might help your hair feel less damaged, my hair is just naturally fragile so I use it. My hair is curly, I find that heatless curl methods make it more wavy but I am not sure if they work on straight hair.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

emphatic seconding Lab Muffin, she's so great 🤩

[–] BeatTakeshi@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago
[–] Alice@hilariouschaos.com 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] Master@lemm.ee 3 points 10 months ago

I really like 1 2 3 4 5 6...

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I'm so glad nobody expects things from boring middle-aged white guys. These curls look great. I look meh.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

hey I appreciate your comment, but this is a womens-only space (i.e. only women are permitted to post or comment).

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

no worries, just raising awareness ☺️