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Im here because reddit keep banning my site wide for no reasons and i could use something new. I know about piefed/lemmy, i must say its pretty good but is it the best alternative to reddit is there more out there?

Just wondering what you all think?

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[–] AskewLord@piefed.social -1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (6 children)

what about content where it's liberals hating on conservatives or policing every event for diveristiy and inclusion?

like i used to post about bike rides on reddit. and host them. then i got harassed for being 'ableist', because what about someone who can't ride a bike, i'm excluding them and being discriminatory! no bike ride should exist unless it's inclusive for people who can't ride bikes because of a disability or lack of physical fitness!

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 4 points 17 hours ago (4 children)

I definitely wouldn't care about that personally, but I would just block anyone who is an issue.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (3 children)

yeah i can do that, until they report me and get me banned because the mod in charge of the community agrees with them.

fwiw i got banned from reddit entirely, for having an outdoor cat and posting about it, because it pissed off many 'cats are mass murderers and should only be kept indoor' users, and the mods who agreed with them. i was banned over the pretext of 'promoting violence' by allowing my cat to be outdoors, and therefore being 'pro mass murder'.

It gets nasty real fast. this wasn't even in a subreddit about cats, it was in a local city subreddit.

the issue is that people have a massive bias that their choices and beliefs, are the only valid and correct ones, and everyone else should be silenced or abused until they agree.

[–] ThuggyG@piefed.ca 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit has gotten impossible with that nonsense. I got banned from a sub for calling out someone who posted a tweet about tariffs being beneficial as a scholarly source. I said, this isn’t a source it’s some guys opinion. 

In another sub I got banned for suggesting that liberals claim to be above using attack ads was a dumb opinion because they’ve never said any such thing.

The polarization is bad for everyone.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social -1 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

people who are polarized don't see it that way. they only care about your agreement or using violence if you disagree.

lemmy has a ton of users who openly advocate for violence against those they disagree with. but if you ask them if they apply that standard of themselves, they say start telling you that's the 'paradox of tolerance.' because you know their opinions are totally good if they are intolerance of the intolerance! but they themselves should be tolerated! or something. it's pure insanity.

everyone wants to be the perpetrator of violence, but never the victim...

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