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What's an immediate turn off in a person? (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 years ago by TheArstaInventor@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 60 points 2 years ago (18 children)

So many things.

queer phobic. I'm not queer but many of my friends are. I don't need that negativity in my life.
smoker. Maybe a pass if they are actively trying to quit. Maybe. Most active smokers I've known have kind of been assholes about it, though.
littering. Sometimes combined with the above when smokers throw their butts on the ground
being a jerk about people having healthy hobbies. Like, just let someone enjoy some video games or bird watching or whatever. I can't with people who are like "omg that's so childish you still [play games/read fiction/go to the zoo/whatever]?".
being anti-consent. I've met a few women who are like "just do stuff and I'll tell you if I don't like it" and I'm like lady there's some "stuff" that can be done that by the time it's happening , the damage is done. Let's just have a conversation about what we like and what our boundaries are.

[–] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 years ago (3 children)

The fuck is wrong with going to the zoo? Other than if it's a shitty zoo giving animals a shit life, but c'mon.

[–] juliebean@lemm.ee 17 points 2 years ago (2 children)

it's "childish" to enjoy fun things like the zoo, according to some incomprehensibly boring and immature people.

[–] refalo@programming.dev 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

This is so many people on IRC it's not even funny.

Especially most libera mods. Their god complexes can be seen from space, they're often highly unreasonable, hold decades long grudges and have a hair trigger for anyone even remotely trying to be funny.

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