WomensStuff

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Women only trans inclusive This is an inclusive community for all things women. Whether you're here for make up tips, feminism or just friendly chit chat, we've got you covered.

Rules…

  1. Women only… trans women are women, and transphobic or gender critical talk isn’t allowed. Anyone under the trans umbrella (e.g. non-binary, bigender, agender) is free to decide whether a women's community is a good fit for them.
  2. Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
  3. Don’t hate on groups, hatefilled talk about groups is not allowed. Ever.
  4. No governmental politics, so no talk of Trump actions etc. We recommend Feminism@beehaw.org for that, but here is an escape from it.
  5. New accounts or users with few comments may have their posts removed to prevent spam and bad-faith participation.

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I've noticed that there's some really talented women in this group. Does anyone want to design the banner and/or userpic for WomensStuff? Doesn't need to be fancy, I just thought it would be a nice way to showcase our brilliant women's talents.

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Nobody but me is ever allowed in my handbag and I always have certain things in it. What's in yours?

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What women-led YouTube channels do you all like? Share them below!

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Excellent crafting? Tried some new make up? Trained someone at work? Whatever you've done we wanna hear!

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I thought this case was interesting. Most judges are male, and they're making crucial decisions about people's lives. A percentage of them are going to dislike women, and that's before we consider women who are different ethnicities, disabled etc.

Misogyny has only recently got attention in the news, despite effecting women their entire lives. How many judges have given unfair verdicts because they don't like women?

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There's lots of brilliant female tv characters, historical figures, celebs etc. Whose you're favourite and why?

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Want to natter but don't want to do a full thread? Natter here!

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Don't use synthetic hair seems to be the takeaway.

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How do you gals feel about something like this? This hasn't gone through clinical trials so still early stages.

I had such bad reactions to the Mirena IUD and minipill, I've been on the oral combo BC since then. I wish I didn't need hormones but they help with heavy/painful periods (even skipping them), birth control, and the estrogen helps with acne. I'm not sure if I can give myself a shot 😬 I'm pretty squeamish around needles and bad with pain.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.today/post/26490389

The technology uses tiny crystals to achieve both long-term effectiveness and the convenience of injections.

-EDIT- Fixed URL - sorry all

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We've reached over 700 members! And we aren't all bots! I'm so grateful to you and would like your input.

I've done a mega quick questionnaire which takes under 1 minute to complete. It's just on what you want to see here. Please fill it in, or if you're short on time just message me content ideas

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Expert on your children? Science buff? Contouring genius? There's lots of wonderful women here, what do you know lots about?

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Let's play this or that! Reply to the thread with what you'd choose. Alternatively post a comment with your own "this or that" question for someone else!

To start us off.... new handbag or new shoes?

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It is our most sacred code... what are the rules?

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The world might be topsy turvy, but what's gone right for you recently?

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If someone offered you a pair of these plain black boots for free, which would you pick and why?

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Want to natter but don't want to do a full post? Natter away here!

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Do you have a good eye for fashion? Great at seeing procedural issues before they happen? A sixth sense with children's needs? Whatever it is, we want to know!

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It's Friday! You got through the standard working week. How are you going to reward yourself?

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I'm always wanting to learn and I don't feel qualified to actually share tips, but here were a few things I wish I had known earlier:

  • when my mascara was drying out, I went too long before learning I could spray a little sterile saline on the brush (shaking off any excess drips of saline), and put the brush back into the bottle and work the brush a bit - then it would apply to the lashes perfectly without clumps (I've enjoyed mascaras like Mineral Fusion and Better Than Sex).
  • lash curlers are a life changer, I have long lashes but they're heavy and droop down, and I thought it was a mistake with how I was applying the mascara (and the mascara weighed them down even more!!); maybe this is just obvious, but I went too long without using one and they really lift my eyes, even just the curler without the mascara is a big help
  • foundation can really age you, so it's important to prioritize skin care and "natural beauty". It really sucks when my skin is breaking out and I have to cover up with foundation because it ruins the natural, soft look of my skin; I wash my face every night with a cleanser (occasionally using a more exfoliating salicylic acid cleanser on my nose) and use a night cream with ceramides. Hydrating throughout the day is also important to healthy skin. (As is diet, tbh.)
  • I had no idea that cosmetic sunscreens existed, I wish I had known there were sunscreens that didn't feel like covering my face in grease, I've gone without sunscreen for decades because I had no idea. Discovering Japanese and South Korean sunscreens that function as a makeup primer, and aren't greasy and absorb into the skin, completely blew my mind and made it so much easier for me to put sunscreen on every day. I have really enjoyed CANMAKE's Mermaid Skin Gel and SKIN1004's Madagascar Centella sunscreens in particular.

What beauty and makeup tips did you wish you knew earlier?

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Hey friends. I've recently realized that what I thought were freckles is actually melasma, and my dermatologist has prescribed me tretinoin for it. I have very pale skin, generally normal in the winter and a little oilier in the T-zone during the summer, but it can dry out really badly with things like AHA. From what I've heard, tret is pretty drying. My dermatologist recommended that I start with applying it only two nights a week, and using a pea-sized amount mixed into my moisturizer. I use the Tatcha Water Cream moisturizer, which is pretty light and has been great for me, but with tret I'm wondering if I'll need a heavier moisturizer. I'm also worried that my usual double-cleansing will worsen the dryness from tret. I double-cleanse with an oil balm to remove my mineral sunblock, then with the Tatcha Rice Wash to get rid of the sunblock & oil balm residue. But I'm thinking the rice wash might be irritating because it's got a (mild) physical exfoliant, so maybe I need to find something else for my second cleanse?

Does anyone have any experiences to share about dryness on tret, or just starting tret in general? Anything I should be aware of? I'm weirdly nervous about it!

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I recently stumbled across this on Instagram, wondering if anyone could give some recommendations?

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