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Indigenous people make up a disproportionate amount of murder and DA statistics, today is national day of rememberance. Love to all effected

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cross-posted from: https://lemmus.org/post/12625305

I don't generally play multiplayer games, but I used to play Palia when it first came out and could jump back into it if I had some friends that still played. Anyone else here play that or another multiplayer game they'd like to suggest?

Some women have preferences, some don't care. Additionally, do you think women or men doctors care more about their patients?

I've seen some women complain about issues with PMDD and their dr brushes it off. When I suggest maybe seeing a female gyno instead, they say their gyno IS female.... Why would another women be dismissive to issues like pmmd or endometriosis?

I'm sure some male Dr's do this too, but I'm just surprised when it's a woman Dr who's being dismissive.

Hi WomensStuff

We've gone well over 2000 members which is amazing and I'm loving seeing all your different contributions. We have a new moderator the lovely @dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone You may know Dandelion from posting here, an absolutely brilliant addition to the WomensStuff team.

I've let other applicants know via message, had some great people apply. ❤️

Hi those from all! We're a women's only community, men we appreciate your interest but please do not comment 😊

Women are trained to not value ourselves, and put ourselves down. What makes you stand out?

Considered to be some of the earliest feminist writings, her work includes novels, poetry, and biography, and she also penned literary, historical, philosophical, political, and religious reviews and analyses.

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Her activism has also drawn the fascination of modern feminists. Simone de Beauvoir wrote in 1949 that Épître au Dieu d'Amour was "the first time we see a woman take up her pen in defence of her sex".

I would like to read some of her work, but haven't yet.

Women are often taught assertive means bitch and/or unhinged. How easy do you find being assertive? Has this changed through your life?

Happy Friday y'all! Today's game is simple, the theme is girls names. You reply with a girls name that starts with the last letter of the previous name and so on. So for example, Paul ends with L, so the next name could be Lewis, then Simon etc. No repeating names!

If someone want's to talk about ESC: I'm down :) In the picture are my favourite submissions for this year.

Or little plastic bottles

Or little ziploc baggies

Suuureee I might not know right then what I’m gonna put in it. But I’ll be sure to find something! xD

Hey all, just a quick reminder that we're looking for moderators, decision will be made this weekend. Details below

Take a recipe leave a recipe.

Just saw the post about baked goods and thought it might be nice to have a place for people to list some favorite recipes. Would love to see a mix of more complicated ones and some more simple ones so don't just share your fanciest. Share your favorites!

Hi girlss! 💖 I am looking for a new curl iron and there are soooo many options. I. AM. SO. LOST. 😭 Some are super expensive and some super cheap. I don’t want to pay too much but also I don’t want to cheap out

I was wondering if you have any recommendations ! What do you use and would you recommend it? Do you use any heat protection ? If so what? 😇 If you have any other suggestions for curling your hair I am all ears !

I appreciate any suggestion :)

I've been more active in online spaces recently and I am just astounded at the number of times I'll be several comments deep with another person and a man will just jump in responding to us both with the least relevant most inflammatory take. The gender of the person I'm talking to is never relevant, but it's always a guy that interjects. I know the internet is a public forum, and I guess there's more guys on some platforms than women, but it's just shocking how often it has happened. We'll be talking about baking and some guy will come in and say that it actually costs more to bake bread at home or clothes and some guy will come in to say actually both our styles are bad. It's not even a sexist thing I don't think, I just think women are socialized more with a live and let live mentality and men are socialized to believe that everyone should hear their opinion. I don't really have any solutions. I always want to reply with something snarky about how we're not asking him or how his comment doesn't need to be shared, but I don't want to invite harassment. Their comments get upvotes or reacts in agreement and it just feels targeted. Like two people were having a casual chat and this guy comes in and derails and gets positive attention for it. I'm just venting now because it just happened in a gaming discord and I don't really have people irl who understand how these communities are helpful and how that kind of community reaction is ostracizing.

Hey all! If anyone is interested in moderating (even if you can only do a few weeks), please DM me answering the following questions:

1. Why would you like to mod WomensStuff?
2. What direction would you take the community in?
3. What hours of the day can you do? Please include timezone
4. What is your gender?
5. Do you agree to uphold the rules?

Thought outside the box at work? Kept your kids busy over Easter? Crafted? Whatever it is we wanna know!

WOMEN ONLY COMMUNITY MEN PLEASE DONT COMMENT

[ This is women-only community. If you do not identify as a woman, please do not comment. Thank you. ]

It absolutely upsets me is that when I bring up women's issues, I often get met with "Men experience that, too!", and that takes away from the attention an issue needs.

This is not me playing to win the "victim olympics", I'm just saying that men really need to listen and realize how exactly women are being treated in these scenarios and why they feel it needs to be brought to attention.

Example: medical discrimination / not having your health being taken seriously as a woman. Do men experience it? Sure! But men absolutely DO NOT experience this in the same way/volume that women do.

Did you know that many clinics will not allow you to get a hysterectomy or your tubed tied without the permission of your spouse? If you are single, they may refuse altogether because "what if your partner wants kids someday?" A HYPOTHETICAL MAN HAS MORE POWER OVER YOUR BODY THAN YOU DO!!!!

Pain being dismissed as "hysterics". Being constantly told that any medical symptoms you are experiencing are a result of """anxiety""". Dismissive of painful menstruation and/or pregnancy, because "woman have been doing this for thousands of years!" Refusing autism diagnosis because "it's not typically a girl thing".. I could go on.

This is not limited to experiences within the medical field. It's.... loooots of things.

Like, fuck.. it's okay to not understand the experience of others. It's like when I hear folks say "Everyone is a little bit OCD! Everyone experiences that sometimes!" like...... no??? Absolutely fucking not, you have no idea what OCD is like, and you're being an insensitive idiot by saying "eVeRyOnEs A lITtLe BiT—" NO THEY'RE FUCKING NOT!

Men face their own issues. Sometimes men's & women's issues overlap. Sometimes there's a little overlap, but women face a much greater degree of fuckery over the issue than men do, and vice versa. That's okay. Just don't invalidate that it may be a larger issue for women than it may be for men.

That's all.