But what if voting in this system doesn’t prevent harm?
Or voting for major party candidates doesn’t prevent harm?
Then you need to do more, on top of voting, to try to further reduce the harm. And, also, don't throw away a crucial tool to move the needle towards "less death and suffering" because it would be way too upsetting.
Not complicated really. Lots of ways of fighting for a better world are upsetting. That's not really the metric of whether they are worth doing.
You said, “I personally am of the opinion that voting isn’t very important. I think it distracts from real action.” Right?
If that's not what you said or not what you think, tell me. What's your position on voting? Is it worth upsetting yourself by voting, if you can then take part in keeping thousands of people out of ICE detention or reduce the US government's destruction of the planet compared to the alternative? My position is that it is, but tell me.
No idea why you've moved to cursing and insulting me.